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Filing for divorce can improve your life in many ways. However, you might feel worried about how you will afford the divorce. Between court fees, the time you will have to take off from work, and lawyer fees, the divorce expenses can add up. Here, I will discuss some common divorce fees and how to keep the costs down.

Court Fees

It is no secret that many couples pay tens of thousands of dollars during the divorce process. However, it is important to understand that not every divorce is the same, and there are ways that you can lower the cost of your divorce. In most divorce cases, each spouse will pay their legal and court costs. In some cases, a judge can order one spouse to pay for both partners legal and court fees. This might happen in a case where one spouse is a stay at home parent and the other spouse supports the family financially. The spouse that has a distinct financial advantage might have to pay some or all of the court costs for both spouses. If you believe that your spouse should pay for your legal and court fees, discuss this option with them, or with your judge.

Additional fees will depend on your personal case. If you and your spouse have a custody battle, it can get extremely expensive. Marital assets and debt are other fees that you will have to deal with. In some cases these costs will be relatively low, however, in others, they might be considerably high.


Lawyer Fees

The biggest cost that you will face in divorce will come about as a result of your divorce attorney. Attorney fees can be extremely high. Regardless, in most cases it is important to have a lawyer represent you in court and guide you through this difficult and confusing process. It is advised that you have a divorce attorney handle your case, however, you do not need to hire the most expensive attorney in town. If you do some research, you might find a highly experienced lawyer who does not charge outrageous fees. This would be the ideal situation.

Furthermore, the more that you and your spouse can agree on outside of court, the less money you will have to spend on court fees, lawyer fees, and other legal costs. Consider working out as much as possible with your spouse before going to court if you are concerned about money.

Reducing Lawyer Fees

If you are talking to lawyers about your divorce, don’t ask them about their “retainer” fees. Ask them the average billing for the last 10 clients that look like your case. Make them put it in writing. Ask for names of former clients and call them and ask about the fee. A lawyer with a good relationship with their former clients shouldn’t have a problem with this. Search for the lawyer’s name on court online docket sheets and see if they have sued a lot of clients for fees. This might give you an example of lawyers who keep the clock running too long.

The best choice in this situation is to find a flat fee or limited flat fee billing structure. We do that, but we aren’t the only lawyers who do. Talking to a flat fee divorce lawyer in Connecticut can, at the very least, give you an idea of the number of hours needed to effectively handle your divorce so you can budget properly. If you go with an hourly billing lawyer, tell them you want monthly statements of the time expended, rather than a final accounting, so you can watch the dollars and cents and not exceed your budget.

Act Quickly

One of the best ways to keep divorce costs low is by acting quickly. The longer that divorce cases drag on, the more money you will have to pay. If you and your spouse can come to agreements quickly and avoid fighting over assets, you will be able to keep the cost of your divorce relatively low. In the sake of quickness, you should also consider getting a prenuptial agreement before you and your spouse get married. If you have a prenuptial agreement, this means that you and your spouse have already discussed divorce and have come to terms of an agreement in the event of a divorce. It is a sensible way to make sure that you and your spouse get what you want out of the divorce without fighting.

Communicating with Your Spouse

By discussing who will get what in a divorce before a divorce is a real possibility, you and your spouse will be more likely to work together and compromise. Even if you do not have a prenuptial agreement, you and your spouse should try to work with each other, as opposed to fighting constantly during the divorce. This will make the process go much quicker and potentially keep your case out of court. If you and your spouse can come to a divorce settlement agreement without involving a judge, the process will be much easier and faster. This will ultimately keep costs low.

One of the most important things that you can do to keep your divorce costs low is to know what you’re agreeing to in the settlement. Depreciating assets, hidden taxes, bad investments, and unrealistic budgets can all have astronomical costs. If you don’t have a plan for sorting through these hidden fees, you could go bankrupt as a result of your divorce.

Finding the Right Lawyer

Another good way to keep costs of a divorce low is to hire an affordable, experienced divorce lawyer. Know what you are paying for before you hire a divorce lawyer. Many lawyers offer a free consultation, so you should take advantage of this free meeting and get answers to your questions. Ask the lawyer questions about their services, how they plan to help you with your divorce, and, most importantly, what the costs will be. Make sure that the lawyer does not charge hidden fees. Also, try to find a lawyer who offers a flat fee instead of charging by the hour. I offer a flat fee and a free consultation. To discuss your divorce, you can contact my office.


Tax Consequences to Divorce

Another issue of divorce is tax consequences. Your taxes will change after divorce, and you need to understand what these changes will mean. If you have recently undergone a divorce or are in the process of getting divorced, and you are unsure about how to file for taxes, you should talk to a lawyer. Ideally, you would like to find a lawyer who has a strong finance background and a lot of experience dealing with cases similar to yours. Your lawyer should address the issues that you might face in the state of Connecticut.

Common Tax Issues

One of the many issues that you could face as a tax consequence of divorce in Connecticut is the question of alimony. Alimony is taxed to the recipient and deducted from the payer. Spousal support works in this way, with the recipient being taxes and the payer receiving the deductible.

Another tax issue deals with child dependency exemptions. In general, the spouse that has custody of the child or the one who truly needs the benefit will be exempt. Home mortgage interest is another issue because interest being paid on a mortgage can be a deductible. You should take all of these possible deductions into consideration when doing your taxes and talk to an attorney or an accountant so that you can fully understand what you owe.

It can also be difficult to determine how you file taxes if you are separated or in the process of getting a divorce. If you are in the process of getting a divorce and you are legally unmarried by the last day of the year, you cannot file taxes as married. This means that timing your divorce and the tax year will be important if you are concerned about filing for taxes. There are many aspects of tax consequences that go along with divorce. You should consider issues such as alimony and support when taxes come up. If you are on good terms with your former spouse, talk to them about any issues that you are having. A lawyer can always help you to figure out what you are responsible for what you owe and what you are entitled to receive.